A Journey Through Chaos and Into Courage
Hi, I'm Deirdre Looney—founder of Chaos and Courage, single mom, and woman of deep faith who's learned how to turn pain into purpose. This space is rooted in my own journey through heartbreak, healing, and hope. I don't have all the answers, but I do know this: even in your lowest moments, you are never alone—and your story isn't over.
The Breaking
There was a time when everything I thought I knew about my future changed. I was told I couldn't have children, and I made peace with that—until life surprised me.
I found myself unexpectedly pregnant, alone, and terrified. What followed was a season of physical illness, emotional isolation, and deep uncertainty. I faced pregnancy complications, abandonment, and an emergency birth with no partner by my side.
I entered motherhood in survival mode—healing from a c-section, caring for a newborn, and silently carrying the weight of postpartum emotions I didn't yet understand.
That was my breaking point. But it wasn't the end.
But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.— Isaiah 40:31
Our Values
Faith-Centered
We believe that a relationship with Christ provides the foundation for navigating life's challenges with grace and purpose.
Authentic Community
We create spaces where single moms can be real about their struggles and celebrations without judgment.
Practical Support
We connect women with resources that address real-life needs, from housing to childcare to emotional support.
Empowerment
We equip single moms with tools, knowledge, and encouragement to thrive, not just survive.